What you can expect when engaged in this type of relationships are a lot of spontaneous changes in your ability to see each other.
Expect last minute rendezvous at the drop of a hat, but .
You are evidence of his avoiding dealing with unpleasant situations head on. Having to keep your relationship a secret can attack your self-esteem and cause you to miss out on one of the wonderful aspects of a relationship. He has a legitimate married relationship that helps his public persona and he has an illegitimate one with you to make up for what heâs missing in his marriage. Even though he's the one that made it difficult to say "No." And even though he tells you how wonderful you are. Many men (and women) have difficulty accepting full responsibility for their deceitful actions.
This means that he's likely to resort to some devious behavior with you if the two of you encounter relationship problems. Walking together freely and radiantly through the world can fill you with the glow of being with someone who is proud to be with you. As appreciative as he sounds, many women who are involved with married men come to resent his having the best of both worlds, when she has the least. Can you love someone who is so disrespectful of his wife? At some level, he's going to have trouble respecting you for settling for such a flawed relationship. Despite his reassuring you how much you mean to him, his not ending his relationship with his wife in an above-board and respectful way -- and not beginning a legitimate relationship with you -- are actions that speak louder than words. Human nature finds it easier to blame than to accept shame. Ever notice how quickly the years go as you get older?
(c) Mark Goulston Blog Author, you take an almost too extreme stand against affairs.
Recently, I read an article by Farrah Gray entitled "Why The Other Woman Slept With Your Man." Farrah's article includes six reasons why she slept with your man: The list was shared over almost 20,000 times, I'm assuming by people who have been betrayed in their relationships and want proof of the other woman's lack of worth and to demonize her.There will be serious limitations and you should consider them thoroughly before embarking on an affair or continuing your affair with a married man.It is entirely possible that someday he may leave his wife, however, , and you have no guarantees that his marriage will end.a.k.a He'll NEVER stay that into you There are no positive reasons for dating a married man.Even the good reasons don't stand the test of time and turn out to be bad ideas in good ideas' clothing.