We've been going out for a couple of years now, and I know we both ( if things continue to go really well) are thinking about marriage now.
The biggest obstacle is my parents who are I own are going to be absolutely devastated- and I really cant stress this enough.
People are astonished that anyone from Pakistan, let alone a woman, can speak, read, and write in fluent English.
The world expects us to be either the frothy-mouthed zealots or mini-mart owners they see on TV.
I wouldnt be just losing my parents, but my relatives and religious Muslim friends as well I would like advice from other Asians who have seen or experienced themselves how it all pans out if the couple marry regardless of their parents view.
But he did it with panache and he was a tower of strength behind Dame Te Ata." Dame Te Atairangikaahu died in 2006 after 54 years of marriage.And I know they love me as well, but I KNOW they would rather I married no one than a white guy.And that to me is unimaginable because all I've every wanted is a family of my own. Basically I've met an amazing guy whom I want to marry but I don't want to lose family. The reason I've put Pakistani Muslims because I believe no one really understands the backward nature of Pakistani culture unless you're in it Sorry in advance about the bad spelling/grammar, I'm not the best at writing.So I'm 25 years old, have a reputable well paid job, live on my own and I have a white boyfriend.